It’s 3am, my shift at the bar ended half an hour ago and
since then, I’ve been sat alone at the bus stop. The stop is only thirty steps
away from the bar. I’m in a well lit area. Yet I can’t help feeling... in
danger. I’m very conscious that standing alone at 3am is not safe, especially
not for a woman.
When you look at the statistics, it’s not exactly surprising that a
young woman should feel uncomfortable at 3am. According to the Home Office, at
least 8000 women are raped every year in the UK.[1]
And that globally women aged 15-44 are more at risk from rape and
domestic violence than from cancer, motor accidents, war and malaria, according
to World Bank data.[2]
Yet with our British mentalities, we would rather risk assault from a drunken
stranger (all with a stiff upper lip, I might add) than simply request a member
of staff to ensure we get on our bus home safely.
With a rise in fees and the cost of living getting higher
every year, more and more students are subsidizing their degrees with a
part-time job. Whether in a shop, and most definitely in a bar, we have to
recognize that employers have a responsibility for their employees.
It is very easy for students to laugh off poor work conduct
– “Yeah they made me stay back an extra hour and I missed my bus but I’m still
getting paid for it.” We feel that, because these companies are basically
funding our Otley Run’s and 2-4-1 cocktail nights, that we have no right to
question how they treat us. That we should just be grateful for our pocket
money, and keep tight lipped as we ‘mow the lawn’ the same way we did when we
were five.
However, part of entering into an adult world – a workplace,
is realising these companies aren’t our parents. They won’t love us
unconditionally, they’re not thinking about our wellbeing. Unless we ask,
unless we demand, for some
protection, thousands of women, and men, are in danger from rape, assault, harassment.
If you find yourself unable to ask someone to be aware of your personal safety,
and would rather stay silent, putting yourself in jeopardy for £6.10 an hour,
then maybe you need to question – am I ready to even have a job?
[1] Walby, S. & Allen, J. (2004) Domestic violence,
sexual assault and stalking: Findings from the British Crime Survey. Home
Office. London.
[2] Unifem (2003) Not a minute more: Ending Violence
Against Women. United Nations Development Fund for Women. New York. http://www.un.org/en/women/endviolence/pdf/VAW.pdf
Great post! I would hate having to leave work so late at night xx
ReplyDeleteIt isn't fun and I did feel scared when I had to do it. Thanks for the comment love :)
Deletethis is so true. i feel like there really should be some kind of legislation...
ReplyDeleteYour opinion about this is very true.
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